{"id":139,"date":"2022-05-08T07:00:49","date_gmt":"2022-05-08T07:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/?p=21"},"modified":"2022-05-09T04:31:02","modified_gmt":"2022-05-09T04:31:02","slug":"anna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/2022\/05\/08\/anna\/","title":{"rendered":"Arcadia Anonymous"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Anna-Hilbert-Photo-Gallery-1024x512.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-337\" width=\"1048\" height=\"523\" srcset=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Anna-Hilbert-Photo-Gallery-1024x512.png 1024w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Anna-Hilbert-Photo-Gallery-300x150.png 300w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Anna-Hilbert-Photo-Gallery-768x384.png 768w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Anna-Hilbert-Photo-Gallery-1536x768.png 1536w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Anna-Hilbert-Photo-Gallery-2048x1024.png 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1048px) 100vw, 1048px\" \/><figcaption>WRITTEN BY ANNA HILBERT<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull ext-my-0 ext-pl-0 ext-pb-0 ext-pr-0 editor:no-inserter ext-pt-lg\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns alignwide bring-to-front ext-px-base tablet:fullwidth-cols tablet:ext--mb-lg is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column tablet:ext-mb-0 editor:no-inserter ext-mb-base is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:75%\">\n<h2 class=\"ext-my-0 has-text-color wp-block-heading\" id=\"lets-talk-design\" style=\"color:#bd9797;font-size:130px;text-transform:lowercase\"><em>@arcadiamissedconnections<\/em><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center ext-ml-0 desktop:ext-ml-base ext-mb-base is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:25%\">\n<p class=\"has-ext-small-font-size ext-mt-0\"><strong>Do you like pi\u00f1a coladas? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ext-small-font-size ext-mt-0\"><strong>Do you like getting caught in the rain? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ext-small-font-size ext-mt-0\"><em>Do you like reading your fellow students anonymously thirst over each other on a public Instagram page?<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ext-small-font-size ext-mt-0\">In my personal opinion, it\u2019s hell yes to all three. Unfortunately @arcadiamissedconnections doesn\u2019t hand out pina coladas when it rains, <strong><em>but still it sure does attract a lot of thirsty students.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"ext-my-0 has-ext-small-font-size\">Read more \u2193<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns alignfull is-not-stacked-on-mobile ext-mb-0 is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-bottom ext-mb-0 editor:no-inserter is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:85%\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>      If you\u2019re a college student right now, you know the isolating feeling of being on a campus full of tired eyes and masked smiles. The keen feeling of campus life has been muffled by KN95 and now socializing is somehow more awkward than it was before. Here at Arcadia University about 90% of the students and faculty are fully vaccinated, which means students are back in classrooms and social events are trying their best under the anti-social covid guidelines. Trust me though, no one\u2019s going to lie and tell you that it\u2019s back to normal. In the wake of awkward six-foot-apart-and-double-masked conversation (don\u2019t even get me started on trying to flirt with a mask on), people have clung to online communication and social media for some stress-free connection. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>    Around 745 followers are clinging Titanic-style to the Arcadia Missed Connections (@arcadiamissedconnections) Instagram account, for their dose of student body interaction. The account summarizes their intentions innocently in their bio \u201csaw a cutie in the chat and didn&#8217;t get their number? look no further! submit a missed connection below\u201d and denies any affiliation with the university despite the iconic Grey Towers logo in their profile picture (the same one featured in Arcadia\u2019s own student-run PR agency \ud83e\uddd0).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_0713-1024x695.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-330\" width=\"464\" height=\"314\" srcset=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_0713-1024x695.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_0713-300x204.jpg 300w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_0713-768x521.jpg 768w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_0713.jpg 1170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 464px) 100vw, 464px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-text-color\" style=\"color:#5b0505;font-size:30px\"><strong>&#8220;who is getting to read all of these anonymous submissions, and are they posting <em>all<\/em> of them?&#8221;&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_0714-1024x552.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-331\" width=\"529\" height=\"285\" srcset=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_0714-1024x552.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_0714-300x162.jpg 300w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_0714-768x414.jpg 768w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_0714.jpg 1170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 529px) 100vw, 529px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_9974-732x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-332\" width=\"284\" height=\"397\" srcset=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_9974-732x1024.jpg 732w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_9974-214x300.jpg 214w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_9974-768x1075.jpg 768w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/IMG_9974.jpg 828w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 284px) 100vw, 284px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\" style=\"font-size:35px\"><strong><em>check out the matching castles pfps<\/em><\/strong> \u2192<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> Understandably, this account is run anonymously, and whoever\u2019s behind it wants to keep it that way. They don\u2019t follow any accounts and were still able to attract over 700 followers since their first post on November 16, 2021. <em>So what?<\/em> People have been posting personal ads since newspapers and Craigslist has been around since the 1990s. Well, from the perspective of a student, there\u2019s something exciting about knowing someone could be <em>so<\/em> attracted to you without you knowing, that they would profess it online. One student actually echoes this idea in their submission, saying they \u201cjust want to feel like the main character of a coming of age teen movie.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>    Especially now during the pandemic era of existence, it\u2019s understandable that students are looking for a way to feel seen, but some of these posts make me think: who is getting to read all of these anonymous submissions, and are they posting <em>all<\/em> of them?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image editor:no-caption ext-mb-0\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/537D77A0-9390-4426-ADAF-F810FE31D287.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-327\" width=\"232\" height=\"232\" srcset=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/537D77A0-9390-4426-ADAF-F810FE31D287.png 556w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/537D77A0-9390-4426-ADAF-F810FE31D287-300x300.png 300w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/537D77A0-9390-4426-ADAF-F810FE31D287-150x150.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 232px) 100vw, 232px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio aligncenter\"><audio controls src=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Anna-Hilbert-Audio-Story-Mix.mp3\"><\/audio><figcaption>Listen to me pretend to be a radio host and hear students talk about @arcadiamissedconnections <br>[music by double suede on spotify] <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve been following @arcadiamissedconnections for a while, so for this story, I was wracking my brain, trying to remember how I found the account. Although, Instagram doesn\u2019t share exactly when you started following someone, you can reorganize your following to sort by the latest followed. Luckily for me (not her), in November a follower of mine had her instagram hacked and had to make a new account with a post explaining the situation. I followed her new account right after @arcadiamissedconnections and her first post was dated: <em>November 21st<\/em>. With a little guesstimation this means I followed @arcadiamissedconnections within the week of their first post. Instagram suggests \u201cNew to Instagram\u201d accounts when new profiles turn up within your circle (whatever the hell that means). This could mean two things:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em> That @arcadiamissedconnections was made under the same email as someone I already follow <\/em><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">OR<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>2. Enough mutual Arcadia students were already following and Instagram thought I deserved to know. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With both options being very enticing, and yet all of it confusing me , I simply decided to DM @arcadiamissedconnections myself, determined to find out if they are a student (or faculty member\u2026I\u2019m just saying, it would be interesting) and get some information about why they started the account and what kind of suggestions they get.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"nv-iframe-embed\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Arcadia Missed Connections\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/cTEEp6ZOV_w?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/@reallygreatsite-1-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-334\" width=\"396\" height=\"528\" srcset=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/@reallygreatsite-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/@reallygreatsite-1-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/@reallygreatsite-1-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/@reallygreatsite-1-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/@reallygreatsite-1.jpg 1728w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 396px) 100vw, 396px\" \/><figcaption>Arcadia sports may be D3 but they&#8217;re pros at attracting admirers <\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>      On Valentine\u2019s Day morning, @arcadiamissedconnections posted a few new submissions.\u00a0 The post got over 100 likes in little over 30 mins. Each slide with the same rom-com aura as always with the added asking-of-valentines. One of my favorite things about this account aside from the exciting mystery, is how it goes beyond just people anonymously yearning. The comment section and replies by the students add a narrative layer with their theories about the subjects of the missed connections. Students tag other students they think it might be about, and multiple similar submissions lead to dramatic sagas understood only by consistent readers. The \u201cra in red\u201d saga created a shared joke among Arcadia campus RA\u2019s and led to a small photoshoot of the RA\u2019s in their brightest reds circulating shared Instagram stories. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/1-2-1024x894.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-336\" width=\"708\" height=\"618\" srcset=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/1-2-1024x894.png 1024w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/1-2-300x262.png 300w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/1-2-768x671.png 768w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/1-2-1536x1341.png 1536w, http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/1-2.png 1545w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 708px) 100vw, 708px\" \/><figcaption>Arcadia&#8217;s campus love spots <\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00a0@arcadiamissedconnections has created a small community among students, not just jokes are shared in comment sections, kind affirmations and advice are also given willingly by fellow students who comment a chorus of \u201cjust shoot your shot guys!\u201d It\u2019s the most I\u2019ve felt connected to the rest of my school since we were all kicked off campus in May of 2020. Unfortunately, @arcadiamissedconnections came to an end April 29th 2022. So all I can say is <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To the instagram account that made my senior year way more entertaining, you&#8217;ll always be Arcadia&#8217;s #1 missed connection.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>@arcadiamissedconnections Do you like pi\u00f1a coladas? Do you like getting caught in the rain? Do you like reading your fellow students anonymously thirst over each other on a public Instagram page? In my personal opinion, it\u2019s hell yes to all three. Unfortunately @arcadiamissedconnections doesn\u2019t hand out pina coladas when it rains, but still it sure&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/2022\/05\/08\/anna\/\" class=\"\" rel=\"bookmark\">Read More &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Arcadia Anonymous<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":327,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"_ti_tpc_template_sync":false,"_ti_tpc_template_id":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[6,3],"tags":[],"coauthors":[20],"class_list":["post-139","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cm313-final","category-individual-projects"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/139","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=139"}],"version-history":[{"count":26,"href":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/139\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":683,"href":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/139\/revisions\/683"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/327"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=139"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=139"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=139"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/onemonthinmurphy.tracktwo.us\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=139"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}